Reciprocation

“Gifts are never free: they bind the giver and receiver in a loop of reciprocity.” — Marcel Mauss, sociologist and anthropologist

Key Ideas:

  • Reciprocation is the desire most people feel to “pay back” for what they received. This is one of the most powerful psychological tendencies underlying human cooperation.
  • The desire to reciprocate is not necessarily in proportion to the benefit provided.
  • The more value you can provide upfront, the more likely it is that people will feel the need to reciprocate.
  • Being generous is one of the best things you can do to build your Reputation and to improve your results as a salesperson.

Questions for Consideration:

  • Are you providing value to others with no strings attached?
  • Are you providing others the ability to reciprocate your gesture by offering you value in return?